What are good books about sex? In this book list, we’ll discuss the top must reads – from different types of authors. Read along and find out the best recommended books about sex…

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We have compiled a clear list for you with the best books about sex. We start our recommendations with the top 10 best books about Sex of all time. This list has been updated this year, including all the recent titles.

Best Books About SexAuthor
The Wild Woman’s WayMichaela Boehm
Mating in CaptivityEsther Perel
Come as You AreEmily Nagoski
Pleasure Activismadrienne maree brown
Girls & Sex Peggy Orenstein
Boys & SexPeggy Orenstein
The Ethical Slut Janet W. Hardy
Becoming CliterateLaurie Mint
Love Worth MakingStephen Snyder, MD
Better Sex through Mindfulness Lori A. Brotto

The updated top 10 list: the best books about sex

The Big Black Book of Sex Positions: Take Your Sex Life From Boring To Mind-Blowing in a Few More Than 69 Moves 

Are you getting bored in the bedroom? Would you like to spice up your sex life? Then we recommend this book by Jennifer Baritchi and Rob Alex. Let this guide help you go on an adventure in the bedroom with your partner.

Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life

If you are interested in how women’s sexuality actually works, then this book will do just the trick. It is based on brain science, and you will find out that there is not one way, because every woman’s sexuality is unique and different.

What’s the Big Deal?: Why God Cares About Sex (God’s Design for Sex) 

We like this book, because it prepares 9 to 12 year olds on the subject of sex. Not only will they discover what sex is, but they will also learn God’s role in it all.

F–ked: Being Sexually Explorative and Self-Confident in a World That’s Screwed 

When two comedians started a podcast with the intent to learn from their past bedroom partners, they ended up moving away from their original subject, because people started to share their bad experiences. Shame, sexual assault, but also verbal and emotional abuse took the stage. The stories in this book are based on all of these experiences, sometimes funny, but also real and confronting.

Awaken Love: The Truth About Sex that will Transform Your Marriage

Sex is all about intimacy, and Ruth Buezis was able to transform her marriage with this idea in the back of her mind. Let this book do for you what it did for her, and start changing your sexual life in ways you couldn’t have imagined.

The Queen V: Everything You Need to Know About Sex, Intimacy, and Down There Health Care

This book is on our top ten list, because it answers questions most of us don’t dare asking the doctor. From several forms of discomfort ‘down there’, to general aspects of the female reproductive system, this celebrity doctor shares it all.

Beyond Shame: Creating a Healthy Sex Life on Your Own Terms 

Matthias Roberts helps you move away from the coping mechanisms we use to manage the shame we feel when it comes to having sex. In our opinion this book works no matter what your background or faith is.

101 Nights of Great Sex (2020 Edition!): Secret Sealed Seductions For Fun-Loving Couples

This is not actually a book, but it will do what the title promises: great sex. If you order this item, you will receive 101 sealed envelopes. One envelope is for the two of you, and from what is left, half is for him and half is for her. Go on a sexual adventure with your partner and start opening those envelopes.

Sex Matters: The Sexuality and Society Reader

The culture you grew up in often determines your beliefs on sex and your sexuality. Knowing this, you can change your attitude and start having other sexual experiences than before.

Sex Points: Reclaim Your Sex Life with the Revolutionary Multi-point System

Bat Sheva Marcus believes that every woman can have a fulfilling sex life, as long as you know what points are and aren’t working for you. Once you find out what doesn’t work, you can address it and improve your sex life. Knowing your own body is where it all starts.

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